What is the Phliosophy Porch?

welcome to a beloved family tradition.

You see, every night, after dinner, my family gathered on the Philosophy Porch at my childhood home and we attempted to “solve the world’s problems.” The Philosophy Porch was a safe haven where everyone was welcomed with open arms and encouraged to share their thoughts and feelings without judgment. The topics ranged from personal accomplishments to deepest fears, hopes and dreams to our latest conundrums, analyzing the universe to observing the garden… Our discussions took us all over the world and back to the most personal matters of the heart.
You see, there are no discussions that are too big or too small for the Philosophy Porch. Each topic is important to the person speaking in one way or another, and therefore it is important to the listener. The Philosophy Porch taught me how to be the person that I am today, and so it’s with great love and compassion that I seek to share the wisdom of the Philosophy Porch with others.
I would like to invite you to join me on the Philosophy Porch, so you too can share the wisdom, comfort, and peace that the Philosophy Porch has brought to my family for so many years.
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*Photograph courtesy of Brittany Makinen Photography.
Coach Tori is a seasoned life coach, speaker, energy healer, and entrepreneur. With a deep understanding of the challenges of burnout and life balance, she empowers individuals to reclaim their lives and live to their full potential.
After a transformative personal journey, Coach Tori discovered the power of holistic wellness and spiritual growth. Now, she shares her expertise to help others break free from limiting beliefs, cultivate self-love, and achieve lasting transformation.
Whether you're seeking to overcome burnout, embrace self-discovery, or simply live a more fulfilling life, Coach Tori can guide you on your path.
Hi, I'm Coach Tori.
Welcome to the Philosophy Porch!
  • I was once an international corporate tax lawyer, burning the candle at both ends. But after experiencing severe burnout in 2019, I embarked on a transformative journey of self-discovery and healing. Now, I'm passionate about helping others break free from the burnout spiral, adventure into self-discovery, and embrace a life of joy, peace, and purpose. Through life coaching, speaking, energy healing, and intuitive guidance, I empower individuals to: - Uncover their true potential;
  • - Discover their unique gifts and passions; - Let go of limiting beliefs;
  • - Overcome self-doubt and fear; - Create lasting change;
  • - Build sustainable habits and routines; - Connect with their higher self;
  • - Tap into their intuition and spiritual wisdom; and more!
  • Life is too short to spend it exhaused and overwhlemed. Let's work together to create a life you love. Warm wishes,
  • Coach Tori (i.e., Victoria O'Connor Blazeski)
Finding purpose, balance, joy, and peace are not one dimensional topics, and as such, the answers we seek in one part of life can often be found in a seemingly unrelated aspect of life. I am a balance coach, and my mission is to help you create a balanced, peaceful, and joyful life overall.

What is Life Coaching?

“A client should consider hiring a life coach over a therapist when they have achieved stability in their lives and are looking to amplify the success they've already visualized ... If they're ready to make decisions, take action, and create results by learning to understand and trust themselves, then coaching is a great fit.” - Womens Health magazine (click here to see full article)
  • A Life Coach is a wellness professional who helps people attain greater fulfillment in their lives.
  • As part of this process, a Life Coach provides a safe, confidential environment where clients feel free to express their true, authentic self without judgment.
  • Life coaching does not have an official regulatory body; however, International Coaching Federation (ICF) is recognized as the unofficial authority in this industry. Coach Tori graduated from an IFC regulated life coach training program, The Dharma Coaching Institute (rebranded as The Highest Self Institute).
  • The primary purpose of life coaching is to assist with reflecting, formulating a plan, and supporting clients while they move forward. This can be accomplished in several ways, such as helping individuals understand their strengths and address their challenges, explore and discover their desires and goals, and provide support and guidance as each individual works to achieve their goals.
  • The Philosophy Porch style of life coaching is unique, flexible, and completely customized to each individual. Our job is to empower individuals to rise above the status quo and embrace their full potential.
  • Coaching sessions can be open to all aspects of life or tailored to address only specific areas that are important to the client, such as business life coaching or spiritual life coaching.
  • Victoria is a life coach and energy healer who's mission is to help you create a balanced, peaceful, and joyful experience overall.
  • Having an open mind is the best way to get the most out of coaching. Finding purpose, balance, joy, and peace are not one dimensional topics, and as such, the answers you seek in one part of life can often be found in a seemingly unrelated aspect of life. For example, if you are seeking purpose in your career, you may find the answers in your hobbies, relationships, or personal life.
  • Life coaching and all services provided by Philosophy Porch Coaching are NOT medical, legal, or business advice. (Please find a description of the differences between therapy and coaching services in the article linked here.) Life coaches do NOT diagnose or provide counsel on mental or emotional health issues; however, life coahes may work in conjunction with mental health professionals (e.g., therapist, psychologist, etc.) if it is determined to be appropriate.
  • Life Coaches are NOT equipped to address trauma without additional training. As such, specific areas of concern should be disclosed to the Life Coach prior to the first coaching session. Should a traumatic expereince be identified during coaching, a Life Coach may suggest a therapist, psychologist, or other licensed medical professional who is equiped to assist with continued healing instead of or in conjunction with life coaching services.
  • Please feel free to contact Coach Tori and the Philosophy Porch by clicking here if you have any specific questions or concerns. We are happy to schedule a complimentary discovery call to discuss further!
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